The notion of BDSM sex is not new: many people are obsessed by this special kind of satisfaction but they mean entirely distinctive expressions of domination and fetishes.
Where to begin?
If you decided to try BDSM with your partner in order to diversify your sex life and receive consent from her – go ahead and watch BDSM video to get new sensations. By the way, BDSM sessions do not always end with sex – it can be just exciting role-playing games.
If you have decided to seriously immerse yourself in the topic and become one of the “chosen ones” – you should decide for yourself what you are ready for. Discuss it with your partner, think over all the pros and cons to the smallest detail. The main thing is not to get too carried away, since the desire to feel or hurt is gradually increasing, and may at some point become a threat to health.
It is worth starting with the easiest options that will help diversify sex and will not bring harm:
- binding – the same soft handcuffs or soft rope, immobilization, but only with the consent of the other side;
- patting and spanking – in this case, not punishment or humiliation yet, just an element of arousal. But you should not get carried away and bring to bruises;
- role-playing games – there are a lot of images and sometimes they are very unpredictable. It all depends on the fantasy and the degree of fetishism.
And remember, when you hear the stop word, stop!
Bandage techniques
Chains, ropes, handcuffs, scarf, scotch tape – these are all bandages that are used to tie the subordinate to the dominant partner. Considering that, for example, the sensations from a silk tie, which can be fixed in one position of the hand, will be much more pleasant than from metal handcuffs. So talk to your partner about how painful you are.